Controlling someone’s sexual experiences can be a source of empowerment and pleasure. It is gratifying to have a willing partner who submits to my desires. One of my preferred methods of orgasm control is edging. Edging is stimulating them until they are on the precipice of an orgasm. I use a variety of techniques including teasing, denial, and Jerk Off Instructions (JOI).
I start edging a submissive by teasing them until they become aroused. I pause every now and then to allow them a brief respite. The pauses serve to frustrate them and to intensify their desperation for an orgasm. I continue edging them with JOI. I always compel them to decelerate as they approach their climax. I keep going until I am satisfied that they have earned the privilege of having an orgasm.
Edging is an effective form of teasing characterized by anticipation. It gives the submissive a glimpse of pleasure without immediate gratification.
I sometimes use edging only to deny a submissive’s orgasm. I may relent and grant them permission to climax after a period of denial. It all depends on them meeting my criteria and amusing me with their earnest pleas.
There is a unique allure in observing submissives following my instructions. The command to “stroke your cock” appears to be a particular favorite among them. I narrate sensations and suggest provocative scenarios. I also incorporate other fetishes and elements of humiliation.
Submissives often focus on genital stimulation. They treat their penis as if it were a source of nourishment. I enhance their pleasure by using JOI that cater to all their erogenous zones. Any part of the body can be an erogenous zone. While the genitals take precedence, I include nipples, testicles, the anus, and so on.
Cum Eating Instructions (CEI) offer an engaging means of humiliation. It allows me to maintain control even after their release. I have instructed submissives to consume their own cum from various vessels. I allow newcomers to mix their cum with food or beverages to mitigate the taste.
Submissives often express their arousal. It is straightforward to engage extroverted submissives in edging practices. I have honed my ability to predict what will push a specific submissive towards an orgasm.